Wednesday, April 29, 2009
i really hope i can keep this blog ongoing.
haha.
life been pretty mundane ever since i start working. time flies, i have started working for 3yrs. and i'm still with HSBC. every yr i tell myself, i should start looking for a new job. but i was too lazy. and i love the colleagues, they are the ones who make me wanna stay. partly i'm too lazy to prepare for an interview. haha.
many things are happening around me. many changes. both good and bad.
lots of flashback during my ride home... my poly days, my sim days, days before i start work, days after i start work.
happy days, sad days...
i realised i'm happier when i was younger. i have lesser things to worry. i just have to study, i get my pocket money, and i go have fun with friends!
when i was looking through my old pics, i notice some outings or events i had totally forgotten about it. lucky there are pics... it's good to take more pics. before all these memories got flushed out of our harddisk.
i really miss those days...
saw karen's comment on facebook regarding platonic relationship. and it caught me thinking.
in the past i dun really believe in it. until i start to have really good guy friends whom i can share everything under the sun. and i know they are really just friends, and nothing more. and it's nvr been an issue to my relationship.
then on the other hand, i start to think, will i be able to accept my better half to have such close relationship with another girl? then my stand starts to contradict... it seems stupid but i think the super paranoid me might not be able to accept. well, it also depends to the extend of how 'close' they are.
anyway different ppl different thinking...
went for a spa session today.
fell asleep and had the weirdest dream. it's tt kind that will only happen in dramas.. not those love love kind. but more on the supernatural thingy.. kinda eerry...
i'm too lazy to type it out...
long weekend ahead...
have u all plan ur long weekend? i had mine fully planned...
*i seriously think i need to lose weight. gosh...*
4/29/2009 10:37:00 PM
Monday, April 27, 2009
. Notebook .
. The Terminal .
. P.S I Love You .
4/27/2009 12:29:00 AM
Sunday, April 26, 2009
was blog-hopping and came across this interesting article.
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Did I Marry the Right Person?During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I marry the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her and so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, the woman answered, "How do you know?
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behaviours/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to do anything. That's why it's called 'falling" in love. Because it's happening to you.
People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened to you.
Falling in love is easy. It's passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire the experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a friendship, excessive TV or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because:
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive and spontaneous experience. It will NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' lasting love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression 'The labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort and energy. And most importantly, it takes Wisdom. You have to know What to do to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws of relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable.
You can 'make' love.
Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'. Not just a feeling.
Remember this always:
'It is pre-destined who walks into your life. It is up to u to decide who you let walk away, and who you let stay and who you refuse to let go.'____________________________________________________________________
*I really hate myself now*
4/26/2009 02:56:00 AM
Sunday, April 19, 2009
had a great fri & sat...
got a treat to furama buffet dinner on fri! food was so so.. but the company was good.
decided to go to the Lee Wei Song concert with my sisters since i've got nothing on. didnt't wan to rot at home...
took lots of dumb pics. haha. but fun! pics are uploaded on FB.
and my sis was too free, decided to photoshop some of the pics.
and i told her: "make my boobies look bigger!"
moments later i heard mum and her giggling non-stop.
i knew something must be wrong..
and see wat she did............
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A pic of me when i'm pregnant!
- notice the bloatness in the face, boobs and stomach -
gosh... she's indeed very detailed....
4/19/2009 02:26:00 PM
Friday, April 17, 2009
.disconnecting.
.overspend.
.restless.
.aimless.
4/17/2009 07:38:00 AM
Thursday, April 16, 2009
i really dunno if i should do it.
part of me really feels like doing it.
part of me is afraid of the outcome..
Argh...
should i? or should i not?
4/16/2009 04:20:00 PM
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
pretty glad with the progress of my teeth!
went to the dentist on mon nite.
the wire finally can be attached to the "far back" front tooth.
so now the 2 front teeth are in line! and they are straight!
wanted to post a pic but i think it's a little unglam.. hee hee..
really happy to see them standing straight, side by side.
chio bu in the making!
wahahahaha~~~
4/15/2009 10:29:00 PM
- notice the bloatness in the face, boobs and stomach -