Thursday, October 23, 2008
children nowadays are so hard to educate.
ppl try using the carrot method. thought this will be a more appropriate approach. so you talk to them. you tell them is because of the love we have for them, hence we are telling them the good and the bad. and i always tell myself, dun overdo it. coz it becomes nagging. we adults also dun like nagging, what more for children.
then always after the "nagging", I start to reflect.
"don't i sound like my mum when i was younger?" and i start to think "do we bother to listen?"
and the ans is No.
but my mum will still go on, hoping one day we will understand.
Now I truly understand how my mum feels at that time. I'm able to see the different points of view.
so what approach should we use? how are we gonna educate our kids in future?
still learning... abit early i know. ha..
it's been a day full of disappointment.
10/23/2008 12:09:00 AM
